A View of Prosperity and the Meaning of Happiness

This article by Bob Rogers is being reprinted from Just One Opinion for the convenience of visitors to New Bohemians. It received positive and negative comments. What do you think?

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We are the most prosperous people in the world; it’s our birthright. At least that is what we thought until recently. It is a new day. Angst has replaced arrogance, and we have a new uncomfortable understanding of limits.

Americans, particularly the middle class, are suffering with varying degrees of wealth loss, and our sense of personal security and prosperity has taken a big hit. Consumer confidence levels are at historic lows, our stress levels high; not a recipe for happy citizens.

Tough times bring angst, depression and anger. Tough times also offer a great opportunity to reexamine our core beliefs, our basic assumptions, about how we define prosperity, happiness; how we perceive the good life.

Now is a great time to ask some challenging and potentially rewarding questions: Would we be less happy without all the possessions we have come to assume are the necessities of modern life? What if the reverse were true, that one might be happier with less?

This idea that limiting our possessions could lead to more life satisfaction is akin to religious blasphemy, the religion being consumerism. It’s a religion that has made us wealthy in material things, but hasn’t made us happy.

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A Fearful Country

Bob Rogers originally published this article at  http://justoneopinion.com and reprints it here for visitors to New Bohemians. The year long tandem bicycle trip mentioned to is linked on this site under Tandem, An American Love Story.

A Fearful Country

Americans are a fearful bunch. Our swagger is unmatched when it comes to bragging about our nation’s wealth and power, but when it comes down to the personal level, we’re afraid of, of, what?

In 1995 and 1996, my wife Claire and I rode a tandem bicycle 14,000 miles around America. We wanted an adventure, and we wanted to see what our fellow Americans were really like. We met hundreds of caring, sharing people who made us proud to be Americans. We also learned that many of them are fearful, and sometimes because of that fear, dislike each other. Fear seems to breed antipathy, even hate.

People thought we were brave or stupid to undertake such a journey. We figured it was a little of both, but it was our choice, As Americans we are blessed to have the freedom to do with our lives as we please. In nearly 40,000 miles of pedaling around the world, we have learned that many others are not so fortunate, do not have the freedom to learn about their own culture, let alone travel the world and learn about others.

As the thousands of miles rolled under our wheels, driven by increasingly powerful muscles and sharper, more questioning minds, we wondered why so many Americans were so afraid, and of what? We passed a sign on a driveway in rural Washington state, “WARNING: Don’t Come Around Here After Dark, Or You’ll Be Found Here In The Morning.” Locking one’s door is not necessarily fearful, just prudent, but what would make someone threaten everyone passing his house?
The retired fighter pilot in Texas, Hispanic trucker in Nevada, pickup cowboy in Montana, Cajun sheriff’s deputy, folks of all colors, political and religious persuasions, all wanted to know, “What do you carry for protection?”

We settled on the vague, “we don’t talk about that.” That seemed to satisfy most except the Cajun deputy who insisted I take his heavy-duty pepper spray.

Indiana FearfulWe were invited for dinner and a bed by a wonderful couple in Indiana who were curious about why we would do such a dangerous thing as ride a bicycle around America. They followed a preacher who told them Armageddon would come, at the year 2000. Their house had bars on the windows, several locks on the doors and weapons. They couldn’t explain how any of this would help in the great conflagration that we are told will come with Armageddon. I respect other’s religious beliefs, as long as they respect my lack thereof, but it seemed strange that their god did not give them comfort, but fear. We told them we had no fear because we were living our dream, and if something were to happen to us, we would have fulfilled our lives. I hope our lack of fear made them question their own excessive fear.
Mind you, none of these people had ever been attacked, or had even known personally anyone who had been attacked, but they felt the need for protection. This was long before 9/11; our government had not yet taught us the constant fear of terrorists, and violent crimes were on the decline in most of the country.
I could only conclude that Americans are fearful, because it is in the interest of some to keep us that way. Gun and ammunition manufacturers certainly gain, locksmiths and home security companies; how about psychologists and ministers, Hollywood? I’m not suggesting these entities, and others, are engaged in a plot to make us fearful. But where are the voices speaking out for the opposing viewpoint, that we really have little to fear in this country? The obvious answer is that there’s no money in helping us feel secure, but plenty to be made by making us afraid.

The big downside is this; fear breeds distrust of those not like us, and that could eventually lead to the breakdown of our cohesiveness as a nation.

Isn’t that what our enemies want? Could our fearfulness be our worst enemy?

Health Care Crisis

By Claire Rogers

President-Elect Obama’s Transition Team has asked for public input regarding the health care crisis in America. We recently hosted a community discussion on the subject and we got an earful.

A recurring theme held strong among the many comments: end users are not represented in decisions about their health care. This was most noticeable with the evolution of the Medicare Part D prescription program, an initially good idea that was severely corrupted by heavy hitting drug company lobbyists.

“The pharmaceutical companies are raping us,” said Jack, when asked his opinion of the mysterious financial “doughnut hole” that is trapping many seniors. Katy had horror stories of abrupt changes to her drug coverage, leaving her the only option of periodically skipping her medications. May was overwhelmed with the paperwork involved in caring for her mother.

Consumers are put in the passive position of reacting to medical care rather than being proactive while doctors are pressured into generating high turnover rates. Is this healthy for anyone?

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New Year’s Resolution? Don’t.

This New Year’s Eve, Claire and I will dance our fool hearts out to the great swing tunes of  sixty years ago, and we’ll dance into the new year.

January first, we will do what we have done each of the New Year’s Days of our relationship: we’ll sleep late, then do one of our several favorite forms of exercise, eat one of our (healthy) favorite foods, take a nap, and enjoy the pleasures of married life, not necessarily in that order. We used to take a dip in the cold ocean, but that doesn’t work too well here in Arizona. Our tradition is to start the New Year off together doing the things we look forward to doing all the coming year. It is for us, a long and honored tradition.

It’s good to have traditions for the New Year, but not all traditions are positive. One I have done without for many years is to make a New Year’s resolution. Here’s why:

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